ok so this year has tested me in alot of ethical stuff. yet i seemed to have moved away from it.... meaning this ethical conduct that i have not practiced has to do the way i think but i do believe that it would be best to follow this rules. since it pretty much got me in alot of trouble. Hmmmm yeah i guess this has been a learning experince for me. Yet I hope in the future there will be no occurances as such. Yet sometimes in society several ethical issues are ignored and bluntly disobayed. Yet this things how ever can be harmful to our selfs in the end we are hurting our selves because a pure soul is best clean without meaness. Hard work begets good things in life. Yet i look back at what happened this year and i never want to go over that agian. it caused me alot of trouble and it disrupted my schedual. yet i did not have the wrong intentions it deep in me i knew i should had put more thinking into it.
If is something is speaking in you against it them it must be bad. Hmmmm how often do I shut of that little voice. Well then the year is coming a year older and alot of lessons. time for working harder in to molding my character and getting back to where I should and need to be.
webmd The Art of Saying 'No'Another reason many people don't reach their goals is that they just can't say no -- to everyone else. "Many of us, especially women, put other things and people first," says Susan Newman, PhD, a social psychologist at Rutgers University and author of The Book of NO: 250 Ways to Say It-and Mean It and Stop People-Pleasing Forever. We're unable to refuse when asked for our time, our talent, our expertise, or merely our presence. "Saying yes is a habit we're not even aware of," says Newman. "Think 'no' before you think 'yes' (not the other way around). By adding the word 'no' to your vocabulary, you open up vistas of time, not only to work toward a goal but also to think about how to reach it," Newman says. "In short, you put boundaries in place and establish priorities in the correct order [for you]." If you haven't mastered the art of saying "no" and you think that's derailing your efforts to reach your goals, Newman suggests taking these steps: - Make a list of how many times a day you say 'yes.' "You'll be startled," says Newman.
- Pay attention to how you parcel out your time. "For most of us, it just disappears. … Who's monopolizing the time you could otherwise spend on reaching your goals?"
- Set priorities. Who has first dibs on you and your time?
- Look at your limitations. When do you start to lose your stamina? "Don't keep pushing until you run out of steam and collapse altogether," Newman advises.
- Let go of control. You don't have to do it all yourself. "If you're doing everything else, there's no time for you to get back to your goal."
I however found this smester very challanging trying to deal with school work, a personal life, and on top of it all WORK. well work was or stresses me out because there is so many expectations of me that i dont even have to deal with. how ever due to a recomendation I have however accepted the demands even though it has made me mad even to the extreme of crying i HAVE been back to my ways when EVERYONE agrees that I deserve to have a better position in my job. I however have limited my thinking to something very small that i cant see past it. Where are have my goals left? True I have support from my family , yet I need to do some stuff for my self. aNY WAY enough about that. Yet another thing is that Im not gettitng paid well And i kinda feel obligated to my work and patient. I ACTUALLY SHOULD BE VERY COMITED TO MY SELF. hmmm but yeah I dnt know whats going to happen from here ON. i feel good doing things for people though. is this a waekness we as "christians " have...helping people first. Hmmm yet we need to work on our situations firtst i suppose. even though the bible says he will provide. we have to be smart with managing our finances. Lately i been feeling really bad about Homeless people. it really really bothers me. | 
I MIGHT EVEN WAN TO WATCH THIS MOVIE THIS YEAR. LOL
Con corazon abiertao al amor verdadero. dios vendiga nuestra casa... y nostras familias. al final de este camino seremos vendecidos ya k los dos lo meresemos por k la verda es k siempre hemos sido almas k hnelan amor y paz o igualidad en el MUNDO. a mi tambien me irrita la desaliguida. pero somos seres imperfectos y cometemos errores tambien por k como ello semos Selfish....por esencia. Esta historia me recuerda de una pareja k se dejo hace tiempo por envidias en la familia. ={
